Single

By : SITI MARIAM BINTI MANGSHOR (PTM140716628)

In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful 

Hello readers ! Happy holiday to my beloved english lecturer Sir Khairy and everyone :)

" I'm single but I'm fine "

          Single? Single does not mean love-less. Every relationship starts from being single. There are plenty of reasons why you stay single until present. Maybe you're afraid of being in a relationship. Or maybe you're unlucky, ohh just not YET lucky I mean :D Or maybe you are too choosy or you're waiting for somebody destined to meet you one day. But another type of single happens after break up ! Most people are in this category.Sorry to say, failed relationship.

          For me, it is okay when you're single and always thinking about having in relationship but it is not okay if you're in relationship but keep thinking to be single again. But you have to think about yourself, your parents, future, studies (if you are still a student) and career more than that "lovey dovey" things. 

Take note people : 

1. You have to stay single if you're not ready.
2. Stay single if you are always on the losing side.
3. Stay single if you're not ready to be hurt.
4. Stay single if you are tired of searching or waiting.
5. Better single if you are not ready to give commitment. It will hurt your partners if s/he know that you are either half serious or not serious at all in the relationship. Poor them :( 

          When you are in the relationship but maybe you're not destined to be with s/he, of coarse you break up right? Yeah I know it is hurt enough. Each time you fell, it hurt. So to cure your heartbreak, you BETTER stay single and take a break. Go to some vacation or trips and forget about s/he. You can't erase your past but you can life in better way. For me, it is better to be unattached rather to be with a wrong person again and again.

          So being single may be easier than being in relationship. Being single may be happy to some people (including me for now because I'm still a young girl and need to think about my studies) but some people rather choose to be in relationship because for them being in relationship is happier than being single. Actually both statuses bring pros and cons. Depend on you to choose it :)

          Just let yourself know, if you are suffering in relationship, you can't even hold it anymore, just get back to be single meanwhile if you are sick of being lonely without partners, go and find yours ! Think by yourself, make your decision by yourself. That will make you happy. 

          But you need to remember one single thing, The Almighty have create better story line for us. Just follow the flow and keep praying. Live your life people ! And with His blessed maybe one day, you'll find someone that afraid of losing you, yeah s/he is destined for you. Someone that The Almighty create for you. It's the best gift from Him. Once the time comes, you have to promise to take good care of s/he, love them, accompany them, be with them whenever in good or bad condition, be loyal to them and I am very sure you will be thanked to Him because take your ex(s) away before. Hihihihi

One fine day !

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